How
do you build the foundation?
The work of the Art of Living is centered in reminding
people of their innate wisdom. As we grow, age and develop,
many of us adopt techniques and beliefs that are unchallenged
and seem true, yet never seem to bring us to peace.
We each unconsciously tell a story about how life is.
And that story is the filter or lens of our lives. And
we don’t realize it is a lens. As we go out into
the world and meet people, that lens seems true, and
effects every relationship we bump into. Consider:
In 1996 Julie and her husband Tim, had come to a profound
impass regarding their relationship and marriage of
twelve years. In a moment of clarity, Julie realized
that much of how her relationship to Tim was going matched
perfectly her thoughts about who Tim was. And she asked
herself, “What if I didn’t consider what
I think about Tim to be true?” On the other side
of that question was annoyance, but a profound sense
of relief as she began to really know her husband for
the very first time. And as the filters and lenses were
removed, wisdom became available for both of them, and
healing began in all of the areas of life. They now
consider their marriage to be sacred and deeply satisfying.
Most of the time we talk about relationship as though
it is something to find or lose. We look for the ‘perfect’
employee. We suspect our partner is ‘not the one’.
Relationship gets relegated more to a shopping mode
than to anything that is spiritually derived. When it
is difficult, we begin considering our options; when
it is easy, we heave a sigh of relief and turn our attention
elsewhere. What if our being together were not so random
and personal? What if it emanates from a greater call?
The Art of Living offers coaching and individually
tailored workshops and retreats that rebuilds an environment
for that greater call to inspire everything. The purpose
for being with your partner, friend, associate or team
will become clear as you begin to remember the work
of YOUR life. The challenges you face will make complete
sense as part of the larger call, and it will become
honorable to work them out. You will begin to maximize
the power of differences rather than avoid them. You
will begin to have an experience of true collaboration
that is what you have always yearned for. And you will
have access to how to design life together from there.
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